I don’t know if you’ve seen it, but this season there is a new Friday night dramedy on television called Men in Trees. A cute show set in the wilds of Alaska, where men are men, and women are scarce. The story centers around a New York City self help author, relationship coach, Marin Frist, who finds out while visiting Elmo, Alaska for a speaking and signing engagement, that her fiancé back home is cheating on her with another woman. Not so great for book sales for the relationship guru, but worse for the woman behind the books, who is left questioning everything she ever knew. About men, and more importantly, about herself. So she stays in Elmo to figure things out, with the help of a cast of very quirky and endearing characters. One of whom is the hunky local wildlife management guy who I’d tune in for all by himself. (Dr. McDreamy, eat your heart out.)
We’re romance readers here, so I don’t have to explain the automatic appeal of this kind of show. We Get It. In fact, we’ve been getting it for a very long time now. We’re sharp like that. What I find really interesting, not to mention heartening and oftentimes amusing, is the reaction of the rest of the viewing public. I happen to scroll through bulletin board posts over on a website called Television Without Pity. A very smart, pithy, witty group who also amuse and entertain me on a regular basis. So I tuned in to see what they had to say about Men in Trees. I was fairly certain the snark factor would be high, as they would view this as sappy, romantic fare, much the way that people who Don’t Get It are wont to do.
Imagine my surprise when, one by one, they trotted by and posted that while, of course they wouldn’t tell their sophisticated friends that they even so much as tuned it, and of course it was only because they literally had nothing else to do that they’d even watched it at all, but they had watched. And…you know, they kinda, sorta, liked it. Probably just a momentary lapse in judgment they were all pretty certain, just a blip on their personal radar and any second now they would reject such fluffy fare and return en masse to “real” shows like CSI, Law and Order, acceptable interpersonal relationship shows, like Lost. Watching Men in Trees was an, an aberration, of course. What else could it be? Certainly they weren’t going to willingly watch some cute, quirky little romance show and, you know, like it.
But they did. In droves, even. And then other stoppers-by began watching to see what the buzz was about, and then they, you know, stopped by and mentioned that, if there was nothing else to possibly do on a Friday night, they might, kinda sorta, watch it again, because, you know, it was okay. For fluff. But it made them feel good, and gee, that was kind of a nice feeling.
At this point I’m grinning like a loon. Because I am loving this reaction, unenlightened as it is, but you have to forgive them, because they Don’t Get It like we do. But they’re slowly becoming enlightened. Whether they want to be or not. They are slowly having to face the fact that, well, they like romance. It’s FUN. And fun is, you know, okay. Acceptable even. As it turns out, bullets don’t have to be flying, people don’t have to be risking their lives in brain surgery, and cops don’t have to be chasing bad guys for this to be acceptable, nay, even remarkable television viewing fare. That, in fact, they can watch Men in Trees just because they want to. Because – gasp! – it makes them feel good. And maybe, just maybe, that’s important enough all by itself to make a show worthy of good reviews, ongoing positive commentary, and sighs of contentment.
And yet the qualifiers continue. “Only because I happened to be home did I watch it, but what a cute show!” “I’d never normally watch fluff like this, but I SO enjoyed it!”
But, I forgive them. It’s hard for, you know, the unenlightened to admit, outloud, in front of others, that it’s okay to like, maybe even love, romance just for what it is. And that it’s just as valid a form of entertainment as anything else.
And you know what? I don’t even care if they never get to that point, as long as they keep watching. First, because it will keep my favorite new show on television, but more than that, it makes me feel good to know that what I do for a living is still pretty much universally appreciated, even if they have to hide behind qualifiers to admit it to themselves, or to others. I can live with that, as long as they keep coming.
It did make me wonder what we’d have to do to get our books in the same hands of alllll those people who just happened to be home on Friday and just happened to watch the show. Because they can stumble across their own ignorance privately, in their own home, without anybody having to ever know, and feed their new addiction privately. When it comes to reading romance, however, sure they can order books on Amazon and keep their fluffy little secret a secret, but they’d have to know the power of a good romance novel in the first place to even think to pick one up.
And I wonder if they realize they can feel just as good as they do every Friday while watching Men in Trees, why anytime they want! Seven nights a week and even at lunchtime if so desired. And I want to find a way to shout that from the rooftops. Hey! You silly people who are loving romance and just don’t know it – there are hundreds upon thousands of titles at your fingertips right this very second that can give you that very same feel-good feeling that you’re now craving, watching this show and loving it.
But I don’t shout anything. They won’t listen anyway. Not yet, anyway. They’re still New At This. So I sit back and read their posts, and all their qualifiers making it okay for them to like romance, and am content knowing that if you build it, and they do come, they will love it. It’s encouraging to know that, at heart, we all love a good romance. At least they are learning that romance is good, it’s fun, and feeling all happy and warm and fuzzy is a pretty cool thing that we should all do for ourselves more often.
And, for now anyway, that’s good enough for me.
Oh yeah, it’s on Friday nights at 9EST, on ABC.
What is your guilty pleasure?