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Can you believe we are less than two weeks away from Thanksgiving? Craziness! Though I do like any excuse to eat pie….

With all the exposure authors now have on the Internet, what’s considered appropriate behavior? What’s a definite no-no?

This varies from house to house, but a general rule of thumb is to ask yourself, “If I worked in an office setting, would I say this to my co-workers and boss?” (Though, working in romance, I say things to my co-workers that I’m pretty sure would be considered inappropriate/harassment elsewhere.) What you need to remember is that being an author is a job. Sending in your manuscript is like sending your resume. If I love it, but then I Google you and find something that makes me think I really couldn’t work with you, I’ll pass.

Now, don’t panic. I expect you to have a personality. I would never say, “Oh, this person is a *insert team here* fan? No thank you!” But there are a few triggers that make me think twice:

Bashing your publishing house (especially if you are still under contract)

Ranting about agents or eds when you don’t seem to have a reasonable gripe

Saying things like, “I’m already late on my deadline, but I just can’t do it today. I’m going shopping!”

Things that indicate you are a diva/high maintenance author (“This ed took 24hrs to respond to my question! Why did it take so long”)

Things that indicate you have really inflated expectations (“I can’t wait until I’m on Oprah.”)

TMI (specifics of your sex life, bowel movements, etc).

From what I’ve seen, most authors are very good about their online personalities. Just remember that whatever you say will be there a long time…you don’t want to regret what you’ve said 10 years from now.

Okay, your turn! Ask away.

A note: I only answer questions for a few days after posting. It’s just too time-consuming to keep up throughout the month! I will check the comments through Tuesday, Nov 16th.  If you’re reading this after that date and would like to ask a question, keep an eye out for my next blog. I’m here the second Friday of the every month.