In the immortal words of Bill Murray (as Frank Cross) in one of my all-time holiday classics (Scrooged):
“It’s Christmas Eve. It’s-it’s the one night of the year when we all act a little nicer, we-we-we smile a little easier, we-w-w-we-we-we cheer a little more. For a couple of hours out of the whole year, we are the people that we always hoped we would be.”
Okay, so it’ s not Christmas Eve yet (we have almost a month to go on that–thank goodness!), but one part of this quote has really been resonating with me lately… “For a couple of hours out of the whole year, we are the people that we always hoped we would be.” At this time of the year, I think that many of us feel the spirit of generosity and we try to give to others out there–others who are less fortunate, others who just need a bit of help. I’m making a concerted effort to GIVE this year, because, well, I’ll admit it, I’m often too focused on the “getting” part of the Christmas equation. Here are a few of the giving activities that I’ve decided to do this year:
1. I’m keeping spare change in my pocket everywhere I go. Doesn’t sound overly impressive does it? Well, I want to be ready every time I see one of the Salvation Army bell ringers. And I also want to be ready, just in case I’m behind someone at a register, and that person is a few cents short.
2. I’m adopting an Angel Tree Child. All right–I actually do this every year. Have since I was in college and I volunteered at aSalvation Army Distribution Center and saw just what a difference these gifts could make for others. Now that I have my son, I adopt an Angel Tree Child who is the same age as Jack–and I know that on Christmas morning, I’ll think of this other child for a few precious moments–and hope that he is enjoying his presents.
3. I’m cleaning out my closet. Again, doesn’t sound overly impressive, huh? But I can give my old clothes to the local shelter for abused women and children or to the Salvation Army or to the homeless shelter…
4. I’m adopting a nursing home resident. My Walgreens (jeez, I feel like I go into that corner store every night!) has a tree full of the names of nursing home residents. These folks don’t want expensive gifts–most just want socks or a new robe–and I can pick up the gifts at the store–and drop them off in a festive gift bag. Most people think of giving to children at Christmas, but everyone needs a gift.
5. I’ll be making my “no-bake” pies (cause I really can’t cook!) and delivering them to my neighbors (both old and new). Sure, they might toss the pies into the trash after I leave, but I’m still going to give!
Okay, so that’s my list. I know there are hundreds of other ways to give. Toys for Tots donations. Shipments to soldiers. There are so many ways to help others…Do you have any “giving” ideas that you’d like to share? I’d love to hear them!
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I took Drama Queen (that’s my younger teenage daughter), two of her cousins and my mom to see Disney Princesses on Ice the other night. We had quite the adventure getting there. Driving downtown – *in the dark* – is not my favorite thing to do and since I took my mom, we had to take her car as it’s fitted for the scooter she rides. (I never minded pushing the wheelchair, but she likes the independence.) Anyway, so her car does not have a GPS and true to form, I took a couple of wrong turns and ended up going through a pretty rough part of the city. Did I mention this was AT NIGHT? Yeah, lots of fun. I got turned around in the parking garage too 